Turning 38 feels significant. Not just because it’s my birthday, but because I can feel it, I feel excited, blessed, and quietly confident that I’m getting there. Wherever “there” is, I know I’m closer than I’ve ever been.

Out of pure excitement and maybe a little curiosity Mr. B planned a pre-birthday weekend for me: a ski trip to Colorado over the MLK weekend. On paper, it sounded perfect. In my head, I was already imagining cozy cabins, snowflakes falling like movie scenes, and a soft, romantic reset before my birthday.

Elaborate they sad....

Back in high school, I had a series of events that were funny, weird, and honestly a little scary at the time. Looking back now almost twenty years later, I can laugh about them, but in those moments, they felt unsettling.

They say what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas.

There’s a moment that comes after heartbreak not when you cry, not when you confront, but when you finally realize how quietly the power in your relationship shifted.

Loyalty is one of the purest forms of love you can ever give someone. It’s what makes friendship feel safe, that silent assurance that your secrets, your fears, and your stories are being held with care.

Love & Sacrifices:

My partner always says, “Who you be is what they’ll become.”

I was in a phase where I feared for my future. It’s that kind of fear that grips you when someone close to you is sick,  when you’re unsure what tomorrow holds for them, and all you can do is sit, pray, and hope they get better. Everything felt bleak. You want to help, but you realize how powerless you are against life’s uncertainties.

A relationship may begin with two people, but very quickly, it expands to include families, friends, and sometimes even ex-partners. While this can enrich life in beautiful ways, it can also introduce challenges when outside voices bring judgment or prejudice.

Lately, I’ve been craving some random things I wouldn’t usually eat , maybe it’s just me, but i dont know what this stage of my life stands for.