For every reaction, there is an action. Over the years, I’ve come to understand that everything I’ve been through wasn’t to break me, but to shape me into a better version of myself. My ultimate goal in life is simple yet profound to raise well behaved, grounded humans who can thrive in today’s ever changing society.
Between 2021 and 2024, life dealt me some of its hardest cards. The experiences forced me to change the way I communicate and connect with people. I’ve learned to measure interactions not by words but by energy and vibes. A negative energy pulls out a matching response from me, while positive energy shines through and always gets the best of me.
Betrayal, too, is no stranger in my journey. But instead of drowning me, it has become a strange teacher reminding me that the universe has its own way of turning hurt into advantage. Sometimes it’s almost humorous watching how betrayal circles back into self sabotage for those who plotted against me.
Because of this, I’ve never placed my hope in people. It makes me difficult to please, but it also makes me strong. Happiness, for me, doesn’t depend on external validation, it comes from within. And I’ve seen time and again that when one door closes, the universe quietly opens another, often better, one.
Those who have witnessed my struggles and growth often tell me, “God’s hand is on your life.” I’m not surprised because I know God protects me, both in my absence and in my presence. That awareness gives me peace.
Lately, I’ve sensed a shift in my life, a change in how I see and experience the world. It’s pushing me toward more kindness, more forgiveness, and a deeper understanding of people.
While I remain guarded, I also remain hopeful because growth means softening where once I was hardened.
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